He's kinda creeping me out...?

I've been friends with a guy since 5th grade, he is a lovely person, and we are good friends. I've done nothing to imply that we're anything more than that, but recently, he's been calling me alot, and giving me presents that I don't want. So far, he gave me a necklace, roses and a pair of shoes. I gave them all back and explained I have a boyfriend who means the world to me %26amp; more. He seemed to get it and backed off for a little while. Then the calls started again, him saying that we should meet up, go to the movies or something. I didn't think that was such a bad idea, we are friends after all. Then, he told a mutual friend that he was going to ask me out the night we were going to go, so I cancelled, realising he hadn't backed off at all. He keeps calling me, and he's told this friend he's going to buy me a car. He's even called my mom to try and find out where I am twice. He's really freaking me out. My boyfriend's offered to talk with him, but I know that won't end in a good way!

He's kinda creeping me out...?
Sounds like a stalker to me and this can become a very dangerous situation. Although you do not want to hurt him, you need to worry about yourself first and foremost. Be firm with him again and tell him that he is making you feel uncomfortable and that you wll not be able to talk to him if he cant accept you as only a friend. Having the BF there woouldnt hurt either (just in case he wants to act crazy). Protect yourself first, worry about the crazy guy now before it gets out of hand. Good luck to you.
Reply:i think u should tell him coolly that he is a very good friend and u appereciate his feelings but u have a boyfriend and u love him a lot. tell him that it would be great if u guys continue being the best of friends. try and find him a girlfriend or arrange a date for him. if he continues with his behaviour after that, just ignore him.


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Reply:if the smooth way couldnt apply on him, then the hard way shall apply at him "very good"! but i have a 2nd choice for u! i think it is better to have him to talk with ur family than ur bf! u noe hau a boy will do if he find out there was another guy tried to "catch" u!!
Reply:u xplain this 2 ur boy frnd. ask wat he is thinking abt this. if he asked u 2 continue 2 b his frnd n' asked 2 go out as his frnd u ask ur boyf 2 *** with u. that is safe 4 u
Reply:There is no doubt that he is stalking you!!! And.... that is very dangerous for you!!! You may need to get the authorities involved before he does something stupid!! I wouldn't wait too long!! Don't worry about his feelings, worry about your own!!!
Reply:uhhhh, why hasnt he realized that he cnt get any furthur than friends??
Reply:tell him that he is creepin you out and he has to stop


Or Get ur b/f
Reply:that's what boy friends are for! tell him to talk to him if he's really bugging you.
Reply:If you cant get htrough to him in a nice way then the only way is to be blunt with him, you have asked him nicely so what more can you do? just tell him to back off otherwise he will lose your friendship, and if he loves you as a friend then he will listen, i wouldnt like to be in your situation but you really do need to tell him, also tell him that he is freaking you out, then if he still carries on let your boyfriend talk to him, after all your boyfriend has a right because he is trying to take you away from him, may i just ad that you sound like you have a very caring and understanding boyfriend, lots of other guys would of snapped by now, good luck x x
Reply:Well if you think you've done everything, the only solution is to change your treatment towards him. Because if you continue to act the way when your just "pure friends", the more he'll fall in love with you and the more chances of hurting him. Tell him that he has to understand that you already have a boyfriend if he's a real friend or else he will lose your friendship. And discuss the situation with your boyfriend to avoid conflicts in your relationship. Hope it helps! Good Luck!

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