Friday, May 21, 2010

My boyfriends little brother is creeping me out! overreacting?

My boyfriend and I have just moved in at his moms house. He has a little brother he seems obsessed with me. He is only 8 but he is telling me he is IN LOVE WITH ME. Buying me rings from the little 25 cent machines and giving them to me. Trying to hold my hand in grocery stores, and if i say no, he will hold on to whatever he can of me. He has already told me that I'm like "a rose".. and kissed my hand twice then told my boyfriend to look at him.. and then kissed me all the way up my arm... Also.. he tries to hug me all the time but puts his face RIGHT IN MY BREASTS! and when I try to move, he will try to keep his face in my breasts! Is this not a problem? or am I overreacting?





p.s. there are a whole lot more things that he has done to freak me out and make me feel uncomfortable but I'll stop there.





%26amp;%26amp; I dont think his actions are normal because I have a large family of many 8 year old children, and none of them seem to act so strange

My boyfriends little brother is creeping me out! overreacting?
You need to move out.


Either back with your parents or you and the beau get a place of your own.





If your beau witnessed any of this behavior, why doesn't he tell his little brother to stop, or said anything to the parents?
Reply:Tht is a weird kid.... maybe u should make one of ur little brothers meet with him so he'll turn (hopefully) normal... if tht doesn't work yell at him.
Reply:OMG tell his mother!
Reply:maybe his mom dosn't give him enough attention so he thinks you might. not an easy situation but somebody needs to set boundaries for him. where is his father?
Reply:The solution and the problem is in your first sentence..."Me and my boyfriend moved into his moms...." Get it?
Reply:This boy is acting wildly inappropriate. You need to tell him to stop assertively. Push him away and tell him that it's not appropriate. Tell your boyfriend and his parents that they need to speak to him too.
Reply:maybe he's watching too much television where he sees all this things he's doing to you. Don't be too much worried. He's 8 I think he's not yet aware of what he's doing. He will still get over with that. Maybe he needs more parenting. He's too exposed on malicious things. Do something about it if hes already 10-12 and he is still doing it to you.


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