Friday, May 21, 2010

Kinky mother-in-law is creeping me out?

Okay, this is a strange one. I have been with my husband since we were kids. His mother and I never were best friends but got along. She's now in her mid-late 50's and has gotten really strange. I don't know if it was "the change" or what? This past year, she has started to call me and message me frequently...sometimes a little drunk. She likes to talk about herself and now her and my father-in-law's sex life! Their favorite places, how she likes it, how she still needs it, how he better be hard...so on. And is constantly acting like she's sexy and every man wants her...trust me she's not hot. She was even pulling her shirt up the other day to show me her "flat stomach" and how good she looks...and she stares at my boobs! And I've heard that from other woman who know her too. What is with her and what do I do?

Kinky mother-in-law is creeping me out?
Geez that is crazy. I think she is sippen the suds or something. Tell your hubby. Maybe he can come up with an idea for you. Good luck
Reply:It seems as if your mother in law feels really close to you perhaps closer than you would like. I don't think it is anything to be alarmed about, whatever you do don't let her know you don't think she doesn't look good. This might hurt her feelings and nobody wants that now do they, no they don't. So if you don't feel comfortable around her I suggest to try avoiding her until you feel more comfortable with the way she speaks to you.
Reply:I think it is the "change" but I've never heard of all the weird stuff that you've said happens. Maybe she wants to feel closer to you and this is the only way she knows how. Maybe she wants you 2 be even closer.......she wants your body. Ha Ha!
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Reply:wow sounds like she wants to experiment with her daughter-in -law


are you into women?
Reply:I don't think this is a situation you can fix, your only choice is to endure it. Your husband is the only one who can do anything with this. Good luck.
Reply:Let's hope it's the alcohol talking and she's a little lonely and depends on you for friendship just try and find her someone else to befriend and talk to explain to her that you feel uncomfortable with knowing these things that you look at her as a mom and not as a friend leave out the part about espeacily more lol but other than that I dont know what to say I always thought my mother in law was a prude when it came to those things but now I'm starting to see it's not such a bad thing to be a prude.
Reply:It sounds like it's one of two things. The first may simply be that this is how she is with everyone she's comfortable with and this is simply how she is with close friends when she is a bit tipsy. The other option which is very possible, is a midlife crisis. As you say she's in her mid-late 50's, her child is married, she's gone/going through menopause. It sounds like average midlife crisis, if anything the unusual hyper sexuality and lack of attention towards social taboos is because she's trying to validate herself as a sexual being despite how she may feel about herself because of her age.





The options for you are either try to just nod and smile or talk to her about it and just tell her you're not comfortable with how she's behaving around you. Who knows, if you talk to her about it she may just really need someone to listen and that in itself may solve the problem.

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