Low Riding Pants and a Thong creeping up the top. I look - and I'm the bad guy??

Why is it that many women wear low riding pants with a thong and the thong creeps up at the top - showing a "whale tail", and I'm a "bad guy" for looking? If you are going to wear stuff like that, guys are going to look.





Please don't answer on whether you dress like this or not. I'm trying to understand why one would dress like that if one doesn't want a guy to look.

Low Riding Pants and a Thong creeping up the top. I look - and I'm the bad guy??
Sometimes it is an accident, but for the most part we do it for attention.
Reply:Maybe they dress like that just for their boyfriend to


look at.
Reply:If the girl you're looking at finds you attractive, then that's ok. But if they don't like you and you look, you're a pervert.





Sorry, that's how life works. They're going it to attract a certain kind of guy; they just don't want to attract _you_.





It's the exact same thing as going around braless and wearing a t-shirt that's 2 sizes too small, then yell at guys for staring at their boobs...
Reply:The only reason someone is dressing like that is to get attention. Don't worry about being the bad guy for looking. You gave the woman exactly what she wanted.





And for the person above who said they are "modest", that's ridiculous! If they were modest, they wouldn't dress that way.
Reply:I'm not going to be much help because I agree with you. If you show six inches of *** cleavage then people are going to notice.
Reply:the same goes for the guys that wear the "loose" pants that hang to their knees and walk like they're trying to hold a balloon between their legs...lol





sounds like i missed out on a real cool style era.....not!
Reply:Some women understand guys, some don't. If she isn't trying to meet you, but only being trying, just walk away.


The ONLY defense for this that science has come up with is to be holding a 14 month old baby while looking.
Reply:Women are funny creatures, since adam and eve, eve had ALl the food in the garden and she only had one she could not eat, mind you (Only one) so what does she do? she eats the one she is not supposed to, now that speaks volumes about woman but here is another answer for your question. Women liked to be noticed, I'm married, if you don't notice their hair cut they cut 1/2 inch off of their hair that is three feet long guess what you are in trouble you annoying sexist pig! (Grin). Now you notice a girl with a knock out body dressed to kill and cause satin to drool or one of the saints, make a comment on how nice the look and your dead meat. How bout the ones who wear their pants so tight you see everything, I try not to look, I'm married but gosh I'm a guy and god created me to admire his work, so I get cracked in the head by my wife and now the woman I was looking at calls me a creep? What CAN A MAN DO?? Finally the other day my wife saw a lady that was absolute gorgeous, I looked but did not say anything, she said Wow What a body, I agreed in my mind but said not as wonderful as yours honey, I made points that day and learned something, if your gonna try to outguess what a women thinks be prepared to be called a sexiest pig. My suggestion s to enjoy the eye candy and try to keep your mouth shut, avoid direct eye contact and keep the drooling to a minimum. And if you have to make a comment say something like nice shoes or nice shirt, but your still gona get it. By the way if you figure out women let me know it's worth a millon bucks for a man to figure them out.
Reply:You're not the bad guy, these girls are asking for whatever looks they get. Including the disgusted ones.
Reply:Maybe she wants a girl to look?
Reply:some girls do dress like that and then seem to be really offended when guys look because they are being too...frisky, perverted?


doesnt make sense, if girls dress as such, some men will look...and then theyll be offended. its a vicious cycle. im not condoning either, but it doesnt make sense to me either. dressing like that holds certain connotations, and then girls get angry when it is implied.
Reply:You are not the bad guy. If girls want to dress that way, then they should expect that kind of attention.
Reply:dude thay want you to look so bad, lol they like when they catch us looking
Reply:They do want a guy to look. They are just too modest to say so.
Reply:Because they are trying to fit in with those that do want you to look. People are sheep and while you can't make them change their mind, they will happily follow each other off a cliff.





Besides, she probably is trying to feed her control ego. She thinks she has the right to put you down simply because you are not supposed to look. Next time don't let her emotionally abuse you, but tell her exactly what she is...
Reply:Women want you to look so they feel better about themselves. Then, they try to become higher than you by putting you down. Don't let bitches get to you.
Reply:they think it more sexy. and they do want guys to look, and tell them not to so they will do it more i know it sounds kinda wierd
Reply:You aren't a bad guy!!! If it's gonna be hangin out then you can look...if you are making comments about it to these girls then that would probably not be ok.