Friday, November 13, 2009

He's creeping me out!?

HELP! There's this guy at school who is nice, but he's been scaring me lately. He is always waiting by my locker, which creeps my bf out. Hes also always trying to touch me. He drapes a hand on my shoulder and squeezes my arm, he touched my sides, and "tickles" me. I've told him to stop numerous times and I've even splashed yogurt in his face, but it's like the more aggressive i get, the more turned on he is. He's always looking at my chest and legs, and he's making every excuse to touch me. He tells me i'm hot, and that he wants to steal me a hat because i look hot in them, and he's always following me. I am terrified of him. any suggestions on what to say/do to get him to STOP? I've told him full out before: NO! NOT YOU!" but he dosn't listen. Help, please!

He's creeping me out!?
Report him for sexual harrassment. Also a good shot to the 'man-spot' will be much more effective than the yogurt in the face thing.
Reply:Tell someone - at school and at home. He's clearly harassing you and you need to make sure he stops, since he clearly doesn't give a crap what you say or do. Tell your teachers, guidance counsellor, principal, and whoever before it escalates.
Reply:Tell someone-- a teacher, the principal, your parents, anyone. He's harrassing you (and sexually), and that's not just inappropriate, it's also illegal.
Reply:have you told any of the teachers about it? maybe a counselor? you might want to so something can get done about this
Reply:PUNCH HIM HE IS SEXUALY ABUSING YOU YOU GOT TO PUNCH HIM OR TELL THE POLICE
Reply:he is not nice! you have told him to stop touching, anything after that is assault. maybe he is just a little obsessed but its time to stop worrying about hurting his feelings. go to your schools security office and make a report. tell them just what you said here.
Reply:Ugh, well, some teenage guys mature faster than others. Some happen to think totally annoying a girl is the way to get her! Imagine... Have you tried to pull him aside and really just tell him, calmly that he is creeping you out and making you feel really uncomfortable? If he is really being pushy and like you said, staring at your chest and legs, don't just ignore it either. If you really feel unsafe then tell someone, a teacher you trust maybe. You may feel silly telling them but why? It's his fault you have to. People will think he's creepy and understand
Reply:notify the school, it's illegal for him to sexually harrass you, tell him that's what he's doing and that you won't put up with it. tell your bf how much he's bothering you too. if he's doing that stuff though, he's not nice, he's a jerk, find a way to make your message crystal clear, you're not playing his game.
Reply:tell your bf to say something to him...


that hes pretty much stalking you


im sure he'll do something about it.
Reply:get your boy friend to tell him off... or beat him up! haha
Reply:Maybe he wants to creep you out
Reply:well i think stalking is against the law. u culd press charges, or get a restraining order, tell ur principal, or get ur bf 2 beat him up lol
Reply:the problem is that a LOT of girls say "stop" in a kidding way. not serious way. even you meant STOP. cause girls always say STOP when they like it. SO you gotta be really serious and say STOP, i'm not playing with you. But he's not a creepo. He likes you a lot, that's all. Just gotta tell him to stop in serious way and he'll stop for sure.
Reply:tellem to giv u a break..
Reply:he is a stalker - you need to notify anyone in charge - if he is under 18. if he is older than 18, tell the police. talk to your parents about it too. he could become dangerous. this should not be taken lightly - you are right to be creeped out by it since it is not normal behavior. good luck.
Reply:okay, this guy is scairy since you have told him to back off you might need to to either....


get your boyfriend on him


or


get a restraining order(seriously) this could gety out of hand
Reply:Sexual harassment in the school place. Tell the superintendent . He should remove the guy from school. Take any witnesses with you when you go.
Reply:okay, well try having like a serious talk with him but be nice at the same time, never forget to be polite so he'll listen, but some guys just like it rough. *ugh* or else you'll just have to report this guy to like the principal or call his parents, have a talk with your parents about it maybe. it's probably time he needs to re-learn what manners are and mean, that's just extremely creepy and rude.
Reply:Well you can tell an adult about this or you could lie to him about someone else like him. You can also try to talk to him and tell him to leave you alone.
Reply:Tell one of your teachers!!!!!
Reply:Kick him in the nuts...he'll get the message.
Reply:Tell your school counselor.
Reply:try being sorrounded by your friends all the time, and if he gets close insult him excessivly until you see a glint of pain in his eyes and then you will know what to use against him.
Reply:Notify the school about his behavior and try to stay away from him. Tell your boyfriend what he has being doing as well.
Reply:Splashed yogurt in his face? LOL, are you a tranny?
Reply:my friend (girl) was one like that. So one day the guy called her and I was there, I answered the phone and told him to leave her alone otherwise I would get my hommies and go kick his *** (of course I was talking like a gang member). He got so scared that he never ever talked to my friend again.


I would reccomend that!


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