Asking someone out and then creeping them out. Is this normal?

This girl I've been talking to for awhile now, I asked her out and she kind of got creeped out. I don't know why. But she was kind of a flirt and I don't know if we were sending each other the wrong messages. But she logged instantly. I don't know if I should e-mail her right away to explain or if I should give her some time to think about what I asked. Because I don't want to sound desperate about anything. It's just that we've been talking for quite a few months online I thought it would be a good time to ask her out.

Asking someone out and then creeping them out. Is this normal?
If shes a flirt, she was just probably flirting with you, and thinking you were just flirting back,,, nothing serious.





asking her out probably made her feel weird, like she suddenly realized you were taking her seriously when she was just flirting.





a lot of people "just flirt". when you flirt with someone it doesnt always mean you want to be with them.





i could see why it would be confusing if you guys both talked previously about feelings, or potential feelings for each other.


but if you havent, or at least,


SHE


hasnt, and maybe even mentioned other guys, then yeah, im thinking she was probably a little surprised.
Reply:i would email now, i dont think you will look desperate. Its a fair question to ask her, if she was giving you the wrong messages. If she is creeped out as you say, then finding it out now is better than thinking about it for the next couple of days. It is possible that you just got the wrong impression,she should understand that if it is the case.
Reply:If this is an on-line chatting which I think it is because of the term logged%26lt;assumed off%26gt; she may not be what she claimed she is and therefore panicked. Most people know about on-line psycho's %26lt;not saying you are one%26gt; She may not be in it for a real relationship, but the feeling of a relationship. Try talking to her, if that doesn't work let it go and be the wiser next time.
Reply:Obviously she is NOT interested in meeting you.


She may enjoy her online flirting, but is not serious about actually meeting any online people.


She has shyed away from you for a reason that seems right to her. So give up on her.





You want to persue a relationship that is easier, and makes progress naturally for both of you.





;P
Reply:Hey dude, don't worry about man, she probably likes you from the sounds of it, but mabye she's just surprised that you asked her out so suddenly, i'd say give some time, i bet you that she'll feel differently about you very soon.
Reply:Well, it could have given her a shock, I would suggest a waiting a day or so and if she doesn't talk, offer an explanation through email or something of the sort. If it doesn't work dear I am truly sorry. Really I mean that much at least.
Reply:Well, maybe she was just playing with you, and doesn't want anything else than just a chat with you, that's why it happened. Or there maybe was some problem.. or something. Just wait.
Reply:Consider stopping following her...the constant phone calls...and the frightening things your doing in her backyard at night.
Reply:I flirt with everyone and talk online with everyone, even if I don't really like them that much. She may be like that as well.
Reply:Hmmm, sounds normal to me.
Reply:STOP HARASSING HER OR I WILL CALL THE POLICE
Reply:I thin it's normal and that u should deff email her. Have fun