My friend is kinda creeping me out...help me please!?

Ok, so I have this guy friend and he is like the best guy friend I've ever had. The problem is that I think he's beginning to get a bit more interested in me than I feel comfortable with. He's a great friend, but he is just really not the type that I'd ever go out with or ever have a crush on. And he's been kinda like complimenting me lately. So what do I do if it does turn out that he likes me like that? And how do I say that I don't like him back to him without making him feel like..you know...embarrassed, rejected, etc.? I REALLY don't want to hurt his feelings and I also don't want things to be come awkward. And it's just creeping me out that he might have a crush on me! Please help...

My friend is kinda creeping me out...help me please!?
Hi,





You need to talk with him, in my opionion tell him that you don't want to hurt him or to lose what you both had gained as friends, but tell him that he's not the kind of person for you, tell him that you prefers to be your best friend but no more than that... he will hurt anyway but at least he will know and hopefully the things will become better for both.


It's hard but you must talk with him as soon as possible before he gets in love





I wish you luck!





Mr. Ramos


From Vancouver, BC
Reply:Tell him you just wanna be friends and also try to huk him up with sum1 else
Reply:I'm not 100% sure if this works, but find a chance to tell will what a great friend he is. Don't make it too obvious; wait for a genuine moment to say it, where it would fit. Hopefully, this will make him realize that you aren't interested. Also, this will probably hurt his feelings the least. But you have to wait for the right moment and it has to sound genuine and right. Hope this helps~
Reply:omg i soo know what you mean! if its a best frined i guess let him like you but let him know you see him as a brother or something..thats what i say when i dont like my friends but they like me!


if hes just a friend id stop spenning soo much time with him cause he sees it as your leading him on and he will fall harder and harder!





its hard and its gunna break your heart to drift away but it hurts them more to have you so close yet they can never be with you!
Reply:like send him signs, like when he compliments you be like oh um, thanks....and change the sub. or just change the sub. all together


help with my prob.





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Reply:Talk to him about how feel.And be firm.
Reply:Well since you guys are like best friends, why not ask him who he likes? If he says you tell first then tell him some other guy and he would get the clue.
Reply:just tell him u wanna be friends and show him by hookin up with sum1 else.
Reply:So this exact thing happened to me.


When he told me he liked me, I guess I kind of took it in a strange way. We stopped talking for a while [like a few weeks... not too bad], but that was only because he was being ridiculous. Anyways! lol We're as close as ever and its not too awkward... Just see what happens. Don't worry too much.


Good luck!
Reply:just tell him what you told us....you like him as a friend and nothing more...draw the line and be firm.
Reply:just tell him that you dont want to go out with him, im a guy and im not sure how he or anyone else would respond, but personally if one of my friends gently told me that they dont like me i wouldnt take it too personally, id probably just mope around for a few days, but id get over it sooner or later
Reply:Go along with it just dont let him get to close.