I think my boyfriend creeping around...but I'm not supposed to know!?

I think my boyfriend is trying to creep around on me. I understand that he is a little bit of a flirt (so am I), but he's going around telling girls that he wants to give them massages...and one particular girl he told her that he's going to keep trying to get her and he won't stop until he gets what he wants....


the only reason that I know all of this is because I have been checking his MySpace messages behind his back. i can't figure out a way to confront him or do more investigation with out me admitting that i've been on his myspace....so i'm looking for suggestions from anyone on how I could pull this off.

I think my boyfriend creeping around...but I'm not supposed to know!?
BE CAREFUL WHAT U ASK 4............ YOU'LL GET EXACTLY THAT!!!!!!!!
Reply:if you feel the need to check up on him and find out that he is creeping around


you are better off without him


if you confront him, he will know you were on his my space
Reply:i know my girlfriend will hit me for this... but here we go.... i would go ahead and create a profile on myspace under different girl and use a fake photo.. and try to contact him.. and see what he says to you... if he starts talking all that mess like he claimed to be, arrange for a meeting somewhere.. have him show up at one of your friends house that he doesnt know about or meet somewhere... if he does show up.. u can confirm that by not actually let him see u, and u can be sitting somewhere.. or you can confront him right there.





OR you can actually find a girl u know on my space and ask her to do the same thing, and you can watch the whole thing, and have her send you the whole message. you need a "physical evidence " that he's is cheating on you. Sometime we men may say something to play with women's feeling online and not actually follow though on it. One thing i would do is snoop around, check his phones, check his email, follow him for a night or a day and see what he's doing and where he's going.





I don't usually advise it, or tell you to do that, but it seems taht u will never know until he actually tell you or you catch him in middle of act. I hope everything goes well for you and him, I wish you two the best.
Reply:obviously theres no trust in the relationship because you are checking his messages behind his back, tell him that his myspace page makes you uncomfortable and he should delete it. my boyfriend did, and i dont have one either. And Cyber cheating is still cheating, because he's actually thinking about it, and flirting or not flirting, giving someone a massage is just not cool. Ask yourself, is this relationship worth all this stress? If not, maybe you guys should take a break to think about stuff.
Reply:I went behind mines back and read his texts and he says he will forgive but not forget it has put a strain on our relationship
Reply:dump him