Girls: How can i message a girl i don't know on facebook without creeping her out?

I see this girl in the local library every once in a while. We never talk to each other or have friends in common and we don't go to the same school but we live in the same town. She is so cute and sometimes i catch her glancing at me ~ however i must confess Im not sure about that ~ (I look at her too). Last night while checking out facebook i found her profile by accident. She seems really down to earth and she is single!


I've heard that is kinda scary when a guy you don't know messages you and tell you he saw you somewhere, that's why I need advice.


I don't want to wait until seeing her again b/c , as i said before, I see her very sporadically and i don't know if i'll see her again. Also, i don't want to tell her that i see her in the library b/c she might think im stalking her.


How can i start? What should i say? and most importantly, how can I avoid creeping her out?


Please girls i give me an advice

Girls: How can i message a girl i don't know on facebook without creeping her out?
Honestly it's going to creep her out no matter what. If she's a smart girl she wouldn't respond to a message from some guy she doesn't know. I'm not saying you're a creep or anything but you can never be too safe when it comes to the Internet.





I really think you should wait till you see her again and then introduce yourself to her. Then I would try to become friends with her on Facebook. At least this way she has a name and a face and will most likely accept you as a friend.
Reply:Well it's either gonna creep her out or she'll be excited because maybe she's been wanting to get to know you to.





Hmmm.... you could try "Hey don't we know each other from somewhere? I could swear I've seen you before. Do you go to --- (insert name of school)" and then just introduce yourself. If you get a reply back that says "no I don't go to ---" then depending on whether you think she sounded warm or cold, you could say "oh, my mistake, it was the library I think" and then ask her how her day is going. If she doesn't respond or sounds cold, just leave it, and making try to just make eye contact again at the library.
Reply:you talk to her next time at the library, then add her.





anythign else is stupid and will weird her out, you need first contact to be in person unless you want to end up on eharmony
Reply:If it works like myspace, then just send her a message like 'Hi! I saw your profile, and you seem nice! BTW, it looks like we're neighbors (We live in the same area)."


see if she responds. If she does, then great! If not, you'll have to let it go... or you WILL be a stalker!





Good Luck!
Reply:best to avoid starting your chats online. It can be very creppy for a girl.





YOu're best chance with starting anything with this girl would be to catch her at the library. Most girls don't want to say 'i met him online'





but if you must, add her as a friend first. then message her for coffee or something.
Reply:...strange, but somehow very cool,


idk, if i was you i'd just send a message that says something to the effect of 'hey,,,you look familiar, do i know you from somewhere?' and just kind of play it by ear from there...
Reply:Does have an Honesty Box APP?





You can ease her through the APP.





Or, just say hi on her wall and see where that leads you.
Reply:join a group that she's joined, then add her.


if she asks, say that you saw her on the groups page


and you thought you remembered her from around


its flawless!


best luck man!

addis