Okay, I am a freshman in high school.In my class, there is this guy who is always trying to talk to me, always sits by me and is trying to talk to me, and several times,when I was on the floor and I held my arms out for my friends to help me up, and he grabbed my hands and helped me up instead.I always see him looking at me and it really bugs me.He always takes my backpack and hands it to me, not to anyone else.Whenever I see him in the halls he tries to talk to me. It is so obvious he has a crush on me, my friend even asked what he thought of me and he said he liked me.Heres the really sick part: he's a senior.He's 18, and I'm 14.Also, he really creeps me out and stuff. Also, this might sound bad, but I don't like dumb guys.I like my guys to be smart and well informed.He's 18 and he is still in Algebra, he's in Math class with one of my freshman friends! I'm already in Geometry, I'm kinda smarter than him.That's another reason I don't like him. I'll continue the question below
This guy at school is creeping me out...help?
just ask him to plz stay away, or just ignore him,dont act all weird to get him away, he will just like u more, once a boy really likes u, he wont go away, i know these things cuz i am a boy,
or
u could
but i dont suggest it,
it could hurt him,
but if u need to...fine,
date someone other than him and act all mushy with the other guy, then he will get all mad at u, and thus,
he will stay away from u.!
Reply:Wow, that's an uncomfortable situation. You should probably try to subtly give him the hint that you don't like him, as opposed to weird things that may be turn-ons instead of turn-offs considering his creepy nature. You know, like whenever you see him coming start talking to friends, and refuse help from him when he offers it in such ridiculous circumstances. Maybe say "okay I don't need you to give me my backpack, it's 2 feet away from me" or something like that.
Reply:i think some one likes u, he wouldn't be doing that stuff if he didn't. try not to pay any attention to him if your not interested. try doing things yourself before he can do them for u, give him the cold shoulder if u really don't like him just let him know your not interested in him. but u may want to give him a chance he doesn't sound that creepy to me.
Reply:I would tell him that you have a crush on somebody at a different school and that you are happy that you are friends. Tell him that it seems like he is like a brother to you. Maybe then he'll realize you're never gonna hook up with someone that you feel is like you brother.
Reply:just tell him your not interested, or tell him about a fake crush, ignore him, pretend (actually that one usually turns guys on). the best on would probably be to act repulsed when you're around him.
Reply:just tell him that you just want be friends.. that way you dont hurt his feelings.. or if you dont care just tell him that your not into him
omar
Friday, November 18, 2011
Someone is creeping me out=sending me WEIRD e-mails/, I want to creep her out and get her to leave me alone?
How do I do this. If anyone could help me that would be much appreciated.
Thanks to all,
JJ
Someone is creeping me out=sending me WEIRD e-mails/, I want to creep her out and get her to leave me alone?
Dude! Tell her you are with the police some how!
Reply:Well you can block their e-mails. Sending one back would be stupid because then she is getting a reaction out of you and then it could get out of hand.
You say she so you obviously know who it is?
Edit: You could print out every e-mail she sends you and take them down to the police station and see if there is grounds for internet harassment or a restraining order?
Or just open up a new e-mail account and only give the address to trusted friends and family.
Reply:.Bodacious is right. Just discipline yourself to delete every email she sends without even reading them. These people thrive on knowing they've got your attention, so cut of her supply.
Alternatively, if she is creating new accounts so you don't always know who to block or ignore, you could always get the email addresses of your contacts and email them outside of YA, then block email within YA in your profile.
Reply:You could stop all emails...but then that stops u from talking to contacts u like. I say once you see it is that weirdo...delete at once...ignore this person....they will go on to their nest victim soon enough! Would be hard to block her...if she keeps changing accounts...u could report her next time...but people like that really do not care...she would like the sttention...best to just ignore her.
Reply:Make up an account and send her a letter impersonating an FBI official. Lay it on nice and thick.
Good Luck
Either that tell her you have her home address and that she had better keep her shades pulled because she'll never know for sure when you are "watching" her.
That way maybe she will block you!!
Reply:Block her. Make sure you do not have any personal info that she can access, ie phone #, address, etc. DO NOT have any further contact with her. If necessary involve the police. Be sure to tell someone about this.
Reply:Just block the person from emailing you .Go into the options in your email inbox and figure out how to block someone .Or change your email adress .
Reply:send her this email:
"listen, I don't have the time for your little game. This ends NOW. I've traced your IP and I know all of your personal information, if you don't stop, I WILL contact the police."
Reply:Why play games? Block her, send her to spam or just delete without reading. Ignoring her is the best solution.
Reply:oh dear. u have a problem lol
make a new email? erm... or.
contact police or something.
or just keep blockin her and they will eventually give up
hope this helps
x
Thanks to all,
JJ
Someone is creeping me out=sending me WEIRD e-mails/, I want to creep her out and get her to leave me alone?
Dude! Tell her you are with the police some how!
Reply:Well you can block their e-mails. Sending one back would be stupid because then she is getting a reaction out of you and then it could get out of hand.
You say she so you obviously know who it is?
Edit: You could print out every e-mail she sends you and take them down to the police station and see if there is grounds for internet harassment or a restraining order?
Or just open up a new e-mail account and only give the address to trusted friends and family.
Reply:.Bodacious is right. Just discipline yourself to delete every email she sends without even reading them. These people thrive on knowing they've got your attention, so cut of her supply.
Alternatively, if she is creating new accounts so you don't always know who to block or ignore, you could always get the email addresses of your contacts and email them outside of YA, then block email within YA in your profile.
Reply:You could stop all emails...but then that stops u from talking to contacts u like. I say once you see it is that weirdo...delete at once...ignore this person....they will go on to their nest victim soon enough! Would be hard to block her...if she keeps changing accounts...u could report her next time...but people like that really do not care...she would like the sttention...best to just ignore her.
Reply:Make up an account and send her a letter impersonating an FBI official. Lay it on nice and thick.
Good Luck
Either that tell her you have her home address and that she had better keep her shades pulled because she'll never know for sure when you are "watching" her.
That way maybe she will block you!!
Reply:Block her. Make sure you do not have any personal info that she can access, ie phone #, address, etc. DO NOT have any further contact with her. If necessary involve the police. Be sure to tell someone about this.
Reply:Just block the person from emailing you .Go into the options in your email inbox and figure out how to block someone .Or change your email adress .
Reply:send her this email:
"listen, I don't have the time for your little game. This ends NOW. I've traced your IP and I know all of your personal information, if you don't stop, I WILL contact the police."
Reply:Why play games? Block her, send her to spam or just delete without reading. Ignoring her is the best solution.
Reply:oh dear. u have a problem lol
make a new email? erm... or.
contact police or something.
or just keep blockin her and they will eventually give up
hope this helps
x
I want to kiss a girl but i can't risk creeping her out.?
Im going to be seeing someone who i have never met in person, we have been talking a lot, mostly online. Im flying across the country to go see some shows with her. I will be staying with her at her parent's home for a week. But i am still not sure if she wants to be more than just friends. I want to kiss on new years at times square, (she wants to go with me) but that is only going to be about 2 days after i meet her in person. I have never been in a relationship before and i have never even kissed a girl before. The problem i have with kissing her is that i have never kissed a girl before and risking the chance that she will be creeped out because she seems like the kind of person who is creeped out easily. If i do creep her out, im worried that i would not have a place to stay for the rest of my trip but also because i love her and i dont want to mess it up. I havent told her i love her or like her because i dont want to creep her out after spending spending 700 dollars on the trip.
I want to kiss a girl but i can't risk creeping her out.?
just kind of ask subtle questions to find out if she feels the same. If you are at least 90% certain she likes you, tell her you are falling for her. Then see what she says. If she says the same, then just press your lips (and slightly purse them) up to hers. Let her do anything more and learn from her. After you kiss her gently, tell her you've never kissed anyone before.
PS: wait longer on telling her that you love her
Only two days after you see her? Just give her a hug at midnight on new year's. If she wants more than that she will kiss you or give you a look like she wants you to kiss her. You will know if the time is right.
As a girl, I would feel creeped out if a guy said "I love you" after only talking online and after only seeing eachother for a few days. Seriously, wait on saying this.
You don't have to tell her on New Year's that you are falling for her. You can tell her the next day. Be sweet about it and keep any distractions away when you say it.
Don't ask her what she wants for her birthday. Be thoughtful about it. For example, if she says she loves to go to shows (ballet or whatever), get her 2 tickets to go to a show.
I want to kiss a girl but i can't risk creeping her out.?
just kind of ask subtle questions to find out if she feels the same. If you are at least 90% certain she likes you, tell her you are falling for her. Then see what she says. If she says the same, then just press your lips (and slightly purse them) up to hers. Let her do anything more and learn from her. After you kiss her gently, tell her you've never kissed anyone before.
PS: wait longer on telling her that you love her
Only two days after you see her? Just give her a hug at midnight on new year's. If she wants more than that she will kiss you or give you a look like she wants you to kiss her. You will know if the time is right.
As a girl, I would feel creeped out if a guy said "I love you" after only talking online and after only seeing eachother for a few days. Seriously, wait on saying this.
You don't have to tell her on New Year's that you are falling for her. You can tell her the next day. Be sweet about it and keep any distractions away when you say it.
Don't ask her what she wants for her birthday. Be thoughtful about it. For example, if she says she loves to go to shows (ballet or whatever), get her 2 tickets to go to a show.
I have a guy creeping on me what do i do to get rid of him??
There is this one guy who creeps me out. At basketball games he sits close to me and even sometimes follows me where i go. So, far he has asked two of my friends if he could ask me to a movie. THey of course asked me and I told them no. He told them he has liked me since the first day of school but he doesn't even know me so i don't know why he is after me so much. what shoudl i do??
I have a guy creeping on me what do i do to get rid of him??
Just confront him, maybe yell, or bump into him "accidentially" and say something like "Get lost, you creep", he will get the message
Reply:I say get to know this guy. Your not even giving him a chance he could be really nice. Your judging a book by its cover.
Reply:quit being a prude and give the poor guy a chance
I have a guy creeping on me what do i do to get rid of him??
Just confront him, maybe yell, or bump into him "accidentially" and say something like "Get lost, you creep", he will get the message
Reply:I say get to know this guy. Your not even giving him a chance he could be really nice. Your judging a book by its cover.
Reply:quit being a prude and give the poor guy a chance
I think my boyfriend creeping around...but I'm not supposed to know!?
I think my boyfriend is trying to creep around on me. I understand that he is a little bit of a flirt (so am I), but he's going around telling girls that he wants to give them massages...and one particular girl he told her that he's going to keep trying to get her and he won't stop until he gets what he wants....
the only reason that I know all of this is because I have been checking his MySpace messages behind his back. i can't figure out a way to confront him or do more investigation with out me admitting that i've been on his myspace....so i'm looking for suggestions from anyone on how I could pull this off.
I'm heartbroken because I told him from the beginning that if he wasn't interested in me anymore, just tell me and we can go our separate ways...but yet, it has come down to this...more drama.
I think my boyfriend creeping around...but I'm not supposed to know!?
Why do you need to confront him? He'll deny doing it or deny it means anything. Just face the fact that he's a creep and stop seeing him. Tell him you've realized that he's not your type and move on. Don't waste your time trying to come up with evidence and ways to present your case.
Reply:Im sorry i would have dumped that dude in a heartbeat if i found out he was giving other girls massages.....Goodluck to ya girl!
Reply:Why do you need to confront him? He's a creep, leave him. I do understand tho, I actually was in the exact same situation. I did confront my ex, he said that he was drunk, didn't mean it, it's just myspace. But, either way if he is talking to other women that way what else is he doing? Just leave him, you deserve a man that is into you, not every chic on myspace.
Reply:Look m8 i was in a similar situation (he was txt and emailin thou) and i tried for months to work out a way to confront him without letting on that i had been spying... well to cut a long story short i couldn't think of anyway to do it other than just come right out and ask him..... i think u should do just that because i know from experience that the longer u let it sit in ur gut the more it is gonna eat u up inside.. but by the sounds of it he wants to have his cake and eat it to... so i would be gettin rid of his *** before u end up more of a wreck
Reply:OK first off...if he is creeping around....the YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO KNOW.... that's obvious that's why they call it creeping around. You need to leave him...that answer to your question is simple. If he is doing that much damage then you need to seperate yourself from his wrecklesness... I didn't even need to read everything you wrote in order to know that you need to walk away from that situation. He's not going to tell you cause he's not going to admite that he is a cheater no man does. If you know what you know and you know it's true you dont need for him to admite it and validate it, that's rediculous!!! There is nothing to "pull off", tell his a@s that you have been on his myspace, he's a cheater, and you're hitten the road and next time he cheats he should try being a little bit more careful about doing it. Then LEAVE HIS A@S ALONE!!!
Reply:No proof uh? that's hard to say. what do you gut tell you?
Reply:geez what a creep
Reply:just payback
a bad advice "priceless"
Reply:You seem like a bright woman. So treat him like a bright guy. Tell him what you feel and what you think. if he is, well then you know. If he isn't then you can talk. Maybe he is or isn't but you both need to be open and not play games.
Reply:When you say you've been on his MySpace, do you mean you're logging in as him and seeing private messages? 'Cause that's the only way it's any wrongdoing. Otherwise, it's a friggin' WEBSITE - why does ANYBODY expect privacy on a page they display to the entire friggin' world?! And if he wanted privacy, why did he make it possible for you to gain access to his account?
And I will admit to not being the world's most wise and mature person on a lot of things, but I think his accusing you of violating his privacy kind of pales in comparison to his violating the cultural expectations of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. He'll probably accuse you of not trusting him, but it sure sounds like you didn't have any good reason *to* trust him!
Reply:do you know the other girl???? you could always say that she told someone and they told someone... i would just say you heard through the grapevine or a little bird told you... but you should leave... no one should be treated like that
games hardware
the only reason that I know all of this is because I have been checking his MySpace messages behind his back. i can't figure out a way to confront him or do more investigation with out me admitting that i've been on his myspace....so i'm looking for suggestions from anyone on how I could pull this off.
I'm heartbroken because I told him from the beginning that if he wasn't interested in me anymore, just tell me and we can go our separate ways...but yet, it has come down to this...more drama.
I think my boyfriend creeping around...but I'm not supposed to know!?
Why do you need to confront him? He'll deny doing it or deny it means anything. Just face the fact that he's a creep and stop seeing him. Tell him you've realized that he's not your type and move on. Don't waste your time trying to come up with evidence and ways to present your case.
Reply:Im sorry i would have dumped that dude in a heartbeat if i found out he was giving other girls massages.....Goodluck to ya girl!
Reply:Why do you need to confront him? He's a creep, leave him. I do understand tho, I actually was in the exact same situation. I did confront my ex, he said that he was drunk, didn't mean it, it's just myspace. But, either way if he is talking to other women that way what else is he doing? Just leave him, you deserve a man that is into you, not every chic on myspace.
Reply:Look m8 i was in a similar situation (he was txt and emailin thou) and i tried for months to work out a way to confront him without letting on that i had been spying... well to cut a long story short i couldn't think of anyway to do it other than just come right out and ask him..... i think u should do just that because i know from experience that the longer u let it sit in ur gut the more it is gonna eat u up inside.. but by the sounds of it he wants to have his cake and eat it to... so i would be gettin rid of his *** before u end up more of a wreck
Reply:OK first off...if he is creeping around....the YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO KNOW.... that's obvious that's why they call it creeping around. You need to leave him...that answer to your question is simple. If he is doing that much damage then you need to seperate yourself from his wrecklesness... I didn't even need to read everything you wrote in order to know that you need to walk away from that situation. He's not going to tell you cause he's not going to admite that he is a cheater no man does. If you know what you know and you know it's true you dont need for him to admite it and validate it, that's rediculous!!! There is nothing to "pull off", tell his a@s that you have been on his myspace, he's a cheater, and you're hitten the road and next time he cheats he should try being a little bit more careful about doing it. Then LEAVE HIS A@S ALONE!!!
Reply:No proof uh? that's hard to say. what do you gut tell you?
Reply:geez what a creep
Reply:just payback
a bad advice "priceless"
Reply:You seem like a bright woman. So treat him like a bright guy. Tell him what you feel and what you think. if he is, well then you know. If he isn't then you can talk. Maybe he is or isn't but you both need to be open and not play games.
Reply:When you say you've been on his MySpace, do you mean you're logging in as him and seeing private messages? 'Cause that's the only way it's any wrongdoing. Otherwise, it's a friggin' WEBSITE - why does ANYBODY expect privacy on a page they display to the entire friggin' world?! And if he wanted privacy, why did he make it possible for you to gain access to his account?
And I will admit to not being the world's most wise and mature person on a lot of things, but I think his accusing you of violating his privacy kind of pales in comparison to his violating the cultural expectations of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. He'll probably accuse you of not trusting him, but it sure sounds like you didn't have any good reason *to* trust him!
Reply:do you know the other girl???? you could always say that she told someone and they told someone... i would just say you heard through the grapevine or a little bird told you... but you should leave... no one should be treated like that
games hardware
My ex- boyfriend is creeping me out! HELP!?
my ex-boyfriend and i broke up after a month, and he loves me alot but i don't like him as much as he likes me. ever scence we broke up he's been callling, stalking and e-mailing non-stop! he is really obsessed and im creeped out! but the thing is hes really sweeet and i don't want to hurt him, but i told him i needed space but he doesn't really get it. whta sould i do?
My ex- boyfriend is creeping me out! HELP!?
tell him you need some time to yourself and if he truly loves you he'll give you space...it's really weird that ya'll only dated a month and he's acting this crazy....might hace to get a restraining order if this continues
Reply:you should tell him how you feel and if you dont want a friendship tell him
Reply:Hire someone to "alert" him!
Reply:If he's showing you these signs now honey, you should thank you lucky stars you broke up with him when you did.. You say it was only a month that you were dating.. How do you fall that in love with someone in that short a period? He has a screw loose somewhere, For God sake don't take him back, and tell him if he doesn't stop harrassing you you'll go to the cops.. Stalking of this kind is against the law.Then he'll know your serious..Don't fool yourself into thinking that this is love it's obsession.......
Reply:He may be sweet, but nevertheless, he is stalking you. Tell him to stop it and don't worry about his hurt feelings, worry about your peace of mind.
Reply:just mutualy tell him easily about how you feel and how you need personal space tell him that you still care but you dont have feelings anymore and he should understand stalking is a big issue especialy if someone loves you so much i had issues along long time ago just tell him that u want to be friends and nothing more and to give u time im sure he will understand :D good luck with this issue and i hope everything works out ok for u!
Reply:Stalking is illegal, call the police.
Reply:Tell him to give you space or you will be calling the cops up for harassment
My ex- boyfriend is creeping me out! HELP!?
tell him you need some time to yourself and if he truly loves you he'll give you space...it's really weird that ya'll only dated a month and he's acting this crazy....might hace to get a restraining order if this continues
Reply:you should tell him how you feel and if you dont want a friendship tell him
Reply:Hire someone to "alert" him!
Reply:If he's showing you these signs now honey, you should thank you lucky stars you broke up with him when you did.. You say it was only a month that you were dating.. How do you fall that in love with someone in that short a period? He has a screw loose somewhere, For God sake don't take him back, and tell him if he doesn't stop harrassing you you'll go to the cops.. Stalking of this kind is against the law.Then he'll know your serious..Don't fool yourself into thinking that this is love it's obsession.......
Reply:He may be sweet, but nevertheless, he is stalking you. Tell him to stop it and don't worry about his hurt feelings, worry about your peace of mind.
Reply:just mutualy tell him easily about how you feel and how you need personal space tell him that you still care but you dont have feelings anymore and he should understand stalking is a big issue especialy if someone loves you so much i had issues along long time ago just tell him that u want to be friends and nothing more and to give u time im sure he will understand :D good luck with this issue and i hope everything works out ok for u!
Reply:Stalking is illegal, call the police.
Reply:Tell him to give you space or you will be calling the cops up for harassment
I think my boyfriend creeping around...but I'm not supposed to know!?
I think my boyfriend is trying to creep around on me. I understand that he is a little bit of a flirt (so am I), but he's going around telling girls that he wants to give them massages...and one particular girl he told her that he's going to keep trying to get her and he won't stop until he gets what he wants....
the only reason that I know all of this is because I have been checking his MySpace messages behind his back. i can't figure out a way to confront him or do more investigation with out me admitting that i've been on his myspace....so i'm looking for suggestions from anyone on how I could pull this off.
I think my boyfriend creeping around...but I'm not supposed to know!?
BE CAREFUL WHAT U ASK 4............ YOU'LL GET EXACTLY THAT!!!!!!!!
Reply:if you feel the need to check up on him and find out that he is creeping around
you are better off without him
if you confront him, he will know you were on his my space
Reply:i know my girlfriend will hit me for this... but here we go.... i would go ahead and create a profile on myspace under different girl and use a fake photo.. and try to contact him.. and see what he says to you... if he starts talking all that mess like he claimed to be, arrange for a meeting somewhere.. have him show up at one of your friends house that he doesnt know about or meet somewhere... if he does show up.. u can confirm that by not actually let him see u, and u can be sitting somewhere.. or you can confront him right there.
OR you can actually find a girl u know on my space and ask her to do the same thing, and you can watch the whole thing, and have her send you the whole message. you need a "physical evidence " that he's is cheating on you. Sometime we men may say something to play with women's feeling online and not actually follow though on it. One thing i would do is snoop around, check his phones, check his email, follow him for a night or a day and see what he's doing and where he's going.
I don't usually advise it, or tell you to do that, but it seems taht u will never know until he actually tell you or you catch him in middle of act. I hope everything goes well for you and him, I wish you two the best.
Reply:obviously theres no trust in the relationship because you are checking his messages behind his back, tell him that his myspace page makes you uncomfortable and he should delete it. my boyfriend did, and i dont have one either. And Cyber cheating is still cheating, because he's actually thinking about it, and flirting or not flirting, giving someone a massage is just not cool. Ask yourself, is this relationship worth all this stress? If not, maybe you guys should take a break to think about stuff.
Reply:I went behind mines back and read his texts and he says he will forgive but not forget it has put a strain on our relationship
Reply:dump him
the only reason that I know all of this is because I have been checking his MySpace messages behind his back. i can't figure out a way to confront him or do more investigation with out me admitting that i've been on his myspace....so i'm looking for suggestions from anyone on how I could pull this off.
I think my boyfriend creeping around...but I'm not supposed to know!?
BE CAREFUL WHAT U ASK 4............ YOU'LL GET EXACTLY THAT!!!!!!!!
Reply:if you feel the need to check up on him and find out that he is creeping around
you are better off without him
if you confront him, he will know you were on his my space
Reply:i know my girlfriend will hit me for this... but here we go.... i would go ahead and create a profile on myspace under different girl and use a fake photo.. and try to contact him.. and see what he says to you... if he starts talking all that mess like he claimed to be, arrange for a meeting somewhere.. have him show up at one of your friends house that he doesnt know about or meet somewhere... if he does show up.. u can confirm that by not actually let him see u, and u can be sitting somewhere.. or you can confront him right there.
OR you can actually find a girl u know on my space and ask her to do the same thing, and you can watch the whole thing, and have her send you the whole message. you need a "physical evidence " that he's is cheating on you. Sometime we men may say something to play with women's feeling online and not actually follow though on it. One thing i would do is snoop around, check his phones, check his email, follow him for a night or a day and see what he's doing and where he's going.
I don't usually advise it, or tell you to do that, but it seems taht u will never know until he actually tell you or you catch him in middle of act. I hope everything goes well for you and him, I wish you two the best.
Reply:obviously theres no trust in the relationship because you are checking his messages behind his back, tell him that his myspace page makes you uncomfortable and he should delete it. my boyfriend did, and i dont have one either. And Cyber cheating is still cheating, because he's actually thinking about it, and flirting or not flirting, giving someone a massage is just not cool. Ask yourself, is this relationship worth all this stress? If not, maybe you guys should take a break to think about stuff.
Reply:I went behind mines back and read his texts and he says he will forgive but not forget it has put a strain on our relationship
Reply:dump him
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